From The Witch's Desk ~ Spilling the Tea

 

Too bad you drew that line in the sand

When you did that, you kind of gave an ultimatum, but this is risky, because they might all call your bluff.  There are no guarantees on the outcome with an ultimatum.

The woman is controlling beyond the norm -- is it someone you know, or is it you we're speaking of?  It's alright, only you know.  You're reading this in solitude, there's no one to watch you for reactions -- a raised eyebrow, a sly smile, a knowing nod, no one will see any of this, but you.

He's calm right now, on the surface at least.  Maybe he's still processing that line in the sand, wondering what it would take to breach it, and if he has what it would take.  People who throw tantrums, throw their weight around, they're usually cowards, you know.  He's worked very hard promoting the idea of a strong and blustery persona.

He's controlling too, but in a more whiny irritating way, not commanding and daunting and slightly threatening, like the woman.

You gave it all you had, wherever you stand in this scenario; you gave until you have no more to give.  You feel like an empty vessel at the moment, and it's at a time like this when all the internet gurus would tell you to ground and center and meditate to "find yourself".  You know exactly where you are, you don't need to "find yourself"... you're on the wrong side of that line in the sand.

To be honest, it might have already gone too far, there may be no turning back at this point, no going forward either. The ultimatum has brought everything to a halt, or to a climax. Like two cats that have squared off, growling under their breath, tales twitching, pupils wide, neither of them dare be the first to move. That's a pretty good description of the scene right now.

There isn't going to be anything to celebrate, at least not in the immediate future, and if you had anything planned, don't count on it now.  Happiness was right in the palm of your hand, so close you could smell it, until you drew that line in the sand.

Spilling the Tea

What is a Ghost Light?

 

A ghost light is a single, temporary lamp left burning on a dark theater stage to serve both practical and superstitious purposes. Practically, it acts as a safety precaution, illuminating hazards like stage edges, holes, or equipment, preventing accidents for those who enter the empty theater. Superstitiously, the light is believed to appease or ward off theater spirits, honoring the tradition and magic of the stage.

Practical Functions

Safety:
It prevents falls and injuries by illuminating the stage, which would otherwise be completely dark and dangerous.

Navigation:
It allows theater personnel to navigate the dark stage safely when they return.

Symbolic Function:
The light also serves as a symbol of the theater's continued life and the eventual return of the cast and crew, even during a closure or pandemic.

Traditional and Superstitious Side

For the Spirits:
One belief is that the ghost light guides resident theater ghosts or spirits, keeping them content and happy.

To Ward Off Mischief:
Another idea is that the light keeps away harmful or mischievous spirits who might otherwise cause trouble.

Tradition:
The tradition is a respected part of theater culture, connecting present-day theater people to those of the past.

Origins of the Ghost Light Tradition

While the exact origins are unclear, theories include...

Safety Precautions:
Legends suggest it began as a precaution against accidents, such as an unlucky burglar falling into the orchestra pit.

Placing Gas Lights:
Early forms may have been gas lights kept on to relieve pressure in the gas lines and prevent explosions.

Burglar Deterrent:
Another idea is that it acted as a deterrent to burglars, making it seem as if someone was still in the building.

Other superstitions and traditions

Telling an actor to "break a leg":
Instead of wishing someone good luck, theatrical performers say "break a leg" to tempt fate and avoid actual bad luck.

Whistling backstage:
It is believed to be a jinx to whistle backstage, as it was historically used to signal stagehands cues during scene changes.

Objects and Items

Peacock feathers:
Peacock feathers are considered bad luck and are not allowed on stage, as the "evil eye" on the feather is thought to bring misfortune.

Mirrors on stage:
Mirrors are believed to interfere with lights or capture negative energy, which can lead to forgotten lines or other disasters.

Real money and jewelry:
It was discouraged to wear "real" jewelry or to carry large amounts of cash in the theatre, as it was believed it could invite theft.

Flowers:
Giving flowers before a show is bad luck, but acceptable after the performance.

Actions and Dress

Costumes:
Wearing blue or green costumes is often considered unlucky, though this can vary by culture.

Shoes on tables:
Placing shoes on a table in a dressing room is a jinx.

Knitting:
Knitting in the wings during a performance is considered bad luck.

Specific Plays

Macbeth:
The name of this play is never spoken in a theatre, with performers referring to it as "the Scottish Play" instead.

Sources & Recommended Reading

Break a Leg
by Lisa Bansavage & L E McCollough

@Amazon

Supernatural on Stage:

Ghosts & Superstitions of Theatre

by Ricghard Hugget

@Amazon

The Mystic Crone ~ It's all about perspective

 

Link: click HERE

Audio Version

Check out The Mystic Crone, she's been up to mischief.

So... are you the culprit? or the victim?

The Loft Artists of New York

 

There is a young photographer who is photographing and filming elderly artists in their New York loft apartments.  These artists have lived here for decades creating their art inside these walls.  This young man is doing us all a great favor by bringing them to us, by documenting their lives and their unique and amazing living spaces before it all disappears.  I'm sure you'll find these gifted individuals as amazing and interesting as I do.

You'll find information on this photograher and on the book he is publishing at the end of this post.

Because of changes at YouTube and how it allows us to view videos posted elsewhere, when you want to watch a video posted here, you might have to click on the box found on each video that says "Watch on YouTube".

Gayle Balcon was born in Toronto, Canada. She is a painter and jeweler who recently moved to Virginia after losing her New York loft of 47 years. 

To reach Gayle: 

Gaylebalcon@gmail.com

Joni Scully is an artist from Pittsburgh, PA. Scully considers herself a classic painter. One who is, as Paul Valery, the French writer, said “a romantic who has learned his technique.” Her paintings are in the permanent collection of The Cahoon Museum of American Art and La Salle University Art Museum. 

To learn more about Joni Scully, visit her website: 

https://www.joniscullypaintings.com/ 

and to contact her: 

LaIrlandesa@aol.com

Nina Klymowska is a Ukrainian American painter born in Lviv, Ukraine. She Immigrated to the United States in 1951 and graduated from the Pennsylvania Academy of Fine Arts (1963). She had her first solo show in Philadelphia in 1963, followed by numerous group shows in Mexico and the US. Her work is in private collections in New York, Philadelphia and Great Britain. 

To inquire about Nina's work, please email: 

kingofvenezuela@yahoo.com

    

Jay Ells is an artist that grew up on a farm in Minnesota. Jay's work delves into the internal struggle between good and evil that exists within the human soul. He draws inspiration from both spiritual and physical realms, and his art pieces reflect the undeniable presence of both sexuality and physicality in human existence. 

To learn more about Jay Ells, visit his website: 

https://www.jay-ells.com/

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The Time Loop Theory & Deja Vu

 

The time loop hypothesis suggests that deja vu occurs because we've actually lived the present moment before in a previous play of time. If time repeats itself in loops, it's conceivable that certain moments may leak through the cracks of the cycle, manifesting as deja vu.

Deja vu, French for already seen,  is a common experience reported by approximately two-thirds of people at some point. While some associate deja vu with paranormal explanations like past lives or psychic abilities, scientific research suggests neurological or cognitive origins.

Scientific theories:

Memory-related disruption:

momentary glitches or mismatches in the brain's memory systems.

Dual-processing theory:

a temporary delay in the brain's processing of sensory information.

Attentional theory:

a brief lapse in attention during information encoding.

Gestalt Familiarity Hypothesis:

recognizing a spatial layout similar to a past experience, even without consciously recalling the prior event.

Some research suggests a connection between deja vu and seizure activity in the brain, particularly in the temporal lobe.

Paranormal theories:

Paranormal theories of deja vu often involve ideas about past lives, spiritual connections, or premonitions. Some believe deja vu is a memory from a past life, a vibrational match to a past experience, or a glimpse of a future event through a dream. Other theories suggest it could be a connection to ancestral memories or a sign of being on the right life path.

Past Life Experiences:
This theory suggests deja vu is a memory, or cellular memory, from a past life surfacing in the present.  

Past life experiences, often explored through concepts like reincarnation and past life regression therapy, are beliefs or claims of remembering events or feelings from previous lifetimes. While not scientifically proven, some individuals report vivid memories, unexplained feelings, or recurring dreams that they associate with past lives. These experiences can range from spontaneous recollections in childhood to guided explorations through techniques like hypnosis.

Ancestral Lineage Memories:
Some believe deja vu can be triggered by events that resonate with memories passed down through family lines.

In psychology, genetic memory is a theorized phenomenon in which certain kinds of memories could be inherited, being present at birth in the absence of any associated sensory experience, and that such memories could be incorporated into the genes over long spans of time.

Precognitive Dreams:
This theory proposes that deja vu is a fleeting experience of a dream that accurately depicted a future event.

Precognitive dreams are dreams that seem to predict future events. They are a type of precognition, which is the purported ability to gain knowledge of the future through extrasensory means. These dreams can manifest as vivid, unsettling, or even comforting experiences that align with real-world events shortly after.

Vibrational Frequency:
This idea suggests that a person can resonate with a place or situation, causing a feeling of familiarity due to a matching vibrational frequency.

Vibrational frequency references the speed and the rate at which energy oscillates. Quantum Physics states that all things in the universe are made of energy. This energy travels in waves or vibrations.

The basic idea behind finding your personal resonance frequency is that you breathe at various different frequencies for a certain amount of time and then identify which frequency led to the strongest response.

To raise your vibrational frequency, focus on cultivating positive emotions, engaging in practices that promote well-being, and surrounding yourself with positive influences. This can be achieved through activities like meditation, spending time in nature, and exercising.

 

Higher Self:
Some believe deja vu is a sign that the higher self is communicating with the conscious self, perhaps indicating alignment with one's life path.

The higher self is pure consciousness. Pure awareness. You communicate with it by clearing away blockages and obstacles which prevent that communication.

The Higher Self refers to a quality of consciousness transcending our regular self-identity and everyday experiences. This higher self, or just the Self (with a capital S), is understood in contrast to the ego (or small self, with a lowercase s).

The Time Loop Theory:

Time loop theory explores the concept of recurring periods of time, often within a fictional or hypothetical scenario, where events repeat themselves. This concept is explored in both science fiction and theoretical physics, often involving the idea of closed timelike curves (CTCs) in spacetime, which could hypothetically allow for travel back to one's own past. 

While time loops are a popular trope in storytelling, their existence in reality is highly speculative and raises significant questions about causality and the nature of time.

Fictional Time Loops:
In fiction, time loops often involve characters experiencing the same period repeatedly, sometimes with the ability to alter events or retain memories from previous loops.

Fictional time loops are a plot device where a character or characters repeatedly experience the same period of time, often with the ability to alter events within that period. These loops can serve as a narrative tool to explore themes of consequence, self-improvement, and the nature of time itself.

Closed Timelike Curves (CTCs):
In theoretical physics, CTCs are paths in spacetime that loop back on themselves, potentially allowing for time travel into the past.  A CTC is a worldline in spacetime that returns to its starting point without exceeding the speed of light.

Closed timelike curves (CTCs) are paths through spacetime that loop back to the same point in space and time, potentially allowing for time travel. These curves arise as solutions in general relativity, particularly in the context of rotating black holes and wormholes. The possibility of CTCs raises questions about causality and the nature of time itself, as they imply travel to the past.

Causality Paradoxes:
Time loops, especially those involving time travel, can lead to paradoxes where future events cause past events, which then cause the future events, creating a self-perpetuating cycle.

Causality paradoxes in time loop theory, also known as temporal or causal loop paradoxes, arise when time travel or retrocausality leads to situations where events appear to cause themselves, creating logical inconsistencies. These paradoxes, often explored in science fiction, challenge our understanding of cause and effect, suggesting potential contradictions within a timeline.

An example is the Grandfather Paradox... This involves a time traveler going back in time and preventing their own birth, for example, by killing their grandfather. If the time traveler never exists, they couldn't have traveled back to kill their grandfather, creating a contradiction.

 
Quantum Mechanics and Time Loops:
Quantum mechanics, with its probabilistic nature, introduces complexities and potential instabilities that could affect the possibility of stable time loops.

Quantum mechanics generally treats time as absolute and universal, a consistent flow. However, when combined with general relativity (which describes gravity and large-scale structures), a problem of time arises, suggesting that time might be relative and malleable. Some theories propose that spacetime itself is quantized, meaning it's not continuous but rather composed of discrete units, potentially impacting how we understand time and its flow.

Eternal Recurrence:
Some theories, like Penrose's Conformal Cyclic Cosmology, propose a cyclic universe where time loops, but not in the sense of individual time travel, but rather the universe itself going through cycles of expansion and contraction.

Eternal recurrence, or eternal return, is a philosophical concept proposing that the universe and the sequence of events within it will repeat infinitely. This idea, notably explored by Friedrich Nietzsche, suggests that every event, every moment, will occur again and again, throughout endless cycles.

In essence, time loop theory grapples with fundamental questions about the nature of time, causality, and the possibility of manipulating it, often leading to thought-provoking scenarios in science fiction and theoretical physics.

 

Sources & Recommended Reading:

Can Science Explain Deja Vu?
by Sabrina Stierwalt

www.scientificamerican.com

How Deja Vu Works
by Lee Ann Obringer

science.howstuffworks.com

The Physics of Time Loops
by Bassel Saleh

climbingthegiant.com

Time Travel
by Nick Redfern

@ Amazon

Fact or fiction? Real or impossible? Movement through time explored, examined and explained!

Albert Einstein’s theory of relativity postulates, and scientists have proven, that the faster you travel, the slower time moves. Clocks on airplanes, satellites and rockets are slower than clocks on Earth, and time travel is indeed real. Can time machines, time-tunnel wormholes or tales of fictional time-traveling heroes be so far-fetched? Covering the history of time travel in both reality and fiction, Time Travel: The Science and Science Fiction investigates the long history, myths, science and stories of movement from the present to the past and into the future.

It's Really About Time: The Science of Time Travel

by John Oliver Ryan

@ Amazon

It's Really About Time provides a clear and complete explanation of why it will someday be possible to travel years, decades or even centuries into the future, a direct consequence of Einstein's Special Theory of Relativity. The book is aimed at intellectually curious people and requires no previous science or mathematics training.

From The Witch's Desk ~ Spilling the Tea

 

You lied one too many times

You lied one too many times, and now you're trapped by the languid drooling untruths of your tongue.

There is someone who knows the truth.  They know the truth, and this knowledge gives them a weapon that will affect your work place, as well as wreak havoc on all the fun things you enjoy, though this we do see is where the problem began.

What do you do now?...

Stay frozen in place, until hopefully everything dies down, and the voice of truth won't have such an impact -- or so you think.

Or do you deny, deny, deny, and hope for the best?

The shameful thing, the worst thing about this scenario, is that one innocent naive individual who still thinks the world is rosy and bright and everything is well.

They didn't think thay had to pay attention to life's movement around them, they didn't have to question your actions or your explanations, because they trusted you to keep their world and yours on level ground, unshakable, and safe.

So, what do you do now?

Spilling the Tea

Anomalies ~ RH Negative Blood & Supernatural Theories

 

Rh-negative blood, a blood type lacking the RhD antigen, is a topic of much discussion, particularly regarding its origins and purported links to various theories. While the scientific explanation is rooted in genetics and inheritance, some theories propose alternative origins, including extraterrestrial or supernatural connections.

It’s alleged that people with Rh-negative blood have distinct physical features paired with a predilection for psychic phenomena and extraterrestrial encounters. Some of those features are:

• Higher than average IQ
• Lower body temperature
• Higher blood pressure
• Red or reddish hair
• Extra vertebrae
• Sensitive vision and particular sensitivity to sunlight
• Elevated intuition

Scientific explanations:

Genetic Inheritance

Rh-negative blood is a recessive trait, meaning it only manifests when an individual inherits two copies of the gene for Rh-negative from both parents.

RhD Antigen:

The RhD antigen is a protein found on the surface of red blood cells. Rh-positive blood has this antigen, while Rh-negative blood lacks it.

Prevalence:

Rh-negative blood is relatively rare, with varying percentages across different populations. It's more common in some European populations, especially in the Basque region.

Evolutionary History:

While Rh-negative blood is found in various ethnicities, scientists believe it likely arose independently multiple times through genetic mutations.

Theories behind RH negative blood:

Extraterrestrial Origin:

Some theories propose that Rh-negative blood is a remnant of an extraterrestrial race that interbred with humans. This theory is often associated with the "Ancient Aliens" concept and is not supported by scientific evidence.

So, the alien theory came along because there doesn’t seem to be any explanation as to where the RH negative gene came from, or why nature would create a situation where a fetus was regarded as "alien" and attacked by its own mother. This has given an opportunity to those who believe in aliens to come up with the theory that there must have been either some sexual interaction between humans and aliens in the ancient past, or aliens have been meddling with people’s genes (presumably those who were abducted and then returned).

When we look at hybrid animals in other species, there are similar incompatibilities and sometimes even complete infertility. When a horse and donkey mate, the genetic differences result in a sterile mule. The same goes for a liger—the progeny of a lion and a tiger—the two species’ chromosomes don’t match, so they produce infertile offspring. Could there be a similar incompatibility between Rh-negative mothers and Rh-positive babies?

The gene that produces Rh-negative is largely present in Caucasians, with the highest concentration found in a small region on the Iberian Peninsula between France and Spain, known as the Basque region. Here, straddling the Pyrenees mountains, up to 40 percent of the population is Rh-negative, and that’s not the only distinguishing feature of the region.

Those from the Basque are also the only people of Western Europe who continue to speak an indigenous Indo-European language, an isolated tongue not spoken anywhere else in Europe. But this language is not just isolated, it’s completely unrelated to other European languages.

Fallen Angels/Nephilim:

Another theory, often linked to the idea of extraterrestrial origins, suggests that Rh-negative blood is a marker of a lineage from fallen angels or Nephilim, beings mentioned in religious texts who came to earth and interbred with human women.

It's thought that the Nephilim of biblical lore are responsible for Rh-negative blood types. In the Book of Enoch, the Nephilim, also known as the Watchers, descend from the heavens and mate with humans, creating a human-angel hybrid. This group of angels and their offspring were wiped out in the great biblical deluge, though some were said to have survived, leaving the Rh-negative blood distinction.

Royal Blood:

Some believe that Rh-negative blood is associated with royalty or a superior lineage, often linking it to historical or religious figures.

Specific Personality Traits:

Some individuals with Rh-negative blood are exceptionally intelligent and driven to seek factual information. Some individuals report feeling disconnected from others, or an "otherworldly" feeling. Claims are made that Rh-negative individuals are highly empathetic and compassionate, sometimes even experiencing what others feel. Reports suggest individuals with Rh-negative blood might have a high level of paranormal experiences or encounter unusual events.

Health Associations:

Some studies suggest potential links between Rh-negative blood and certain health conditions, but these are not conclusive.

Things to consider about RH-negative blood:

No Scientific Basis for Supernatural Theories:

There is no scientific evidence to support the theories of extraterrestrial or supernatural origins of Rh-negative blood.

Rh Incompatibility:

Rh-negative blood is clinically significant because it can cause hemolytic disease of the newborn (HDN) if an Rh-negative mother carries an Rh-positive fetus.

Universal Donor:

O-negative blood is often called the "universal donor" because it can be given to anyone, regardless of their Rh factor, making it vital in emergencies.

Sources & Recommended Reading:

I may be an alien?!

by Lesley Lile

https://lesleylyle.com

Is RH negative blood alien in origin?

by Gaia Staff

https://www.gaia.com

Bloodline of the Gods

by Nick Redfern

@ Amazon

Ancient Aliens & the RH Negative Mystery

by Prof. Charley Greyson

@ Amazon

The RH Bloodline Awakening

by Ayla Lancaster

@ Amazon

 

The Mystic Crone ~ playing it safe, or playing the wild card

 

Link: click HERE

Audio Version

Check out The Mystic Crone, she's been up to mischief.

So, which is it going to be -- are you going to play the wild card, or are you going to play it safe? Read on before you make your final decision...

Paranormal Tales ~ Celebrities' Laurel Canyon Haunted Mansions

 

Laurel Canyon

While there isn't a definitive list of haunted houses in Laurel Canyon, the area is known for its haunted reputation, and several notable locations are rumored to be haunted. The Houdini mansion -- the home of Rick Rubin, and even some residences of famous musicians are mentioned in connection with paranormal activity.

Courteney Cox's Laurel Canyon House

She sold this house because she believed it was haunted, as it was the site of several unsettling occurrences.

 (actual photo of Cox's house)

Paranormal experiences:

Cox experienced several unsettling events, including seeing strange faces and lights, and a plant moving, which she initially dismissed as jet lag or sleep-related.

The woman on the edge of the bed:

Friends who stayed at the house told Courteney they had an encounter with a woman who was sitting on the edge of the bed. Cox initially dismissed their claims, as well as those of the legendary singer-songwriter and previous owner Carole King, who told her that an ugly divorce had taken place in the house and that it was haunted.

The UPS driver:

The experience that finally convinced Cox to sell the house was when a delivery driver came to the door. After she answered, he asked if she knew the house was haunted. When she asked why he thought so, he responded, "Because there is someone standing behind you". This chilling encounter was enough for Cox to sell the house shortly after.

A seance with Carole King: 

Cox bought the house from Carole King, who warned her that it was haunted due to a particularly ugly divorce that occurred there. Cox initially dismissed the idea.

Cox mentioned that she and Carole King even conducted a séance in the house to try and get rid of the ghost. However, Cox admits she was too starstruck by King to pay much attention to the séance itself.

These experiences, along with the unsettling feeling she developed after the delivery driver's comment, led Cox to decide she "couldn't sleep there alone ever again" and that it was time to sell the property.

Houdini Mansion

The Houdini Estate in Los Angeles, also known as the Houdini Mansion, is a location with a rich history and a reputation for paranormal activity, including reports of Houdini's ghost. While not confirmed to be Houdini's primary residence, the estate was a place where he spent time, practicing escapes and enjoying the grounds. The property features tunnels, a swimming pool (where Houdini practiced water escapes), and gardens, and has served as a recording studio and event space.

(actual photo of Houdini's mansion)

History:

The estate was built by Ralph M. Walker, a friend of Houdini, who also owned a guest house across the street that Houdini used. Houdini would use the tunnels and elevators connecting the two properties.

Houdini's Connection:

Houdini spent time at the estate practicing escapes and enjoying the grounds. His widow, Bess, even held a seance there after his death.

After her husband, magician Harry Houdini, died on October 31, 1926, his wife Bess held annual Halloween séances for ten years in an attempt to contact him. Before his death, the couple had devised a secret code – "Rosabelle – answer – tell – pray answer – look – tell – answer answer – tell" – which translated to the word "Believe". Bess hoped Houdini would use this code to prove a medium's authenticity if he could communicate from the afterlife.

The séances also served to debunk fraudulent mediums, aligning with Houdini's own efforts to expose spiritualist hoaxes during his lifetime.

In 1929, a medium named Arthur Ford claimed to have received the coded message, but it was later revealed to be a hoax.

Bess's final Houdini séance took place on Halloween in 1936 on the rooftop of the Knickerbocker Hotel in Hollywood. After ten years of unsuccessful attempts, Bess extinguished a light bulb that had been burning beside Houdini's portrait since his death, saying, "Ten years is long enough to wait for any man." She publicly declared her belief that spirit communication was impossible, marking the end of her quest to contact Harry. 

Paranormal Reports:

There have been reports of ghostly encounters, including sightings of Houdini's ghost wandering the grounds. Some artists recording at the estate have reported strange occurrences, including photographic evidence and temperature fluctuations.

Current Use:

The estate is now available for rent for film shoots, weddings, and other events. It has also been used as a recording studio by Rick Rubin, where many famous bands have recorded albums.

Rick Rubin's Mansion

Producer Rick Rubin's recording studio, known as The Mansion, located in Laurel Canyon, Los Angeles, has a reputation for being haunted.

(actual photo of Houdini's mansion)

 

Brief history & paranormal experiences:

Built in 1918, The Mansion has a long-standing association with paranormal occurrences.

While recording their album Blood Sugar Sex Magik in the 1990s, the Red Hot Chili Peppers captured a mysterious "wisp of an entity" in a photo taken at the house.

Anthony Kiedis from Red Hot Chili Peppers reportedly found the haunting presence comforting, while guitarist John Frusciante claimed to have an erotic experience with a female apparition.Corey Taylor of Slipknot, while recording there, recounted seeing visions of ghosts, including a man in a tuxedo in his bathroom, according to Far Out Magazine.

A publicist for Rick Rubin, Heidi Robinson-Fitzgerald, recounted a personal experience of a ghostly woman in white walking down the staircase.

Despite the spooky stories, many prominent artists like Audioslave, Linkin Park, Jay-Z, Maroon 5, and Young Thug have recorded at The Mansion under Rubin's guidance.

Some artists believe that the unique atmosphere and the presence of spirits may even act as a second muse, enhancing their creativity.

The Mansion's basement is connected to a network of tunnels, which were reportedly used to deliver alcohol during prohibition in the 1920s.

 

Other Residences

Various homes of famous musicians, like Joni Mitchell and Frank Zappa, are also rumored to be haunted, though less definitively so. The area's history as a haven for artists and musicians, coupled with its secluded and sometimes mysterious atmosphere, likely contributes to its reputation for being haunted.

From The Witch's Desk ~ Spilling the Tea

 

Stepping up to the plate

You didn't think this one simple innocent individual, or this one obvious (to you) choice, could throw such a wrench in your relationship, your marriage.  But there it is.  Truth is, you didn't even do anything wrong.  You were just being responsible, making decisions that need to be made, stepping up to the plate, as they say, taking care of business, taking care of someone who can't take care of themselves.  

But your partner didn't see it that way, did they?  And this surprised you, didn't it, stunned you actually.

Suddenly the quaint idea of "we're in life together", "what affects you, affects me", "we'll handle life's problems side by side"... it all kind of fizzled into empty cliques, didn't it?

You expected your partner to be as willing to step up to the plate as you are, but this didn't turn out to be the case, did it.

Now what?

You've been through all the arguments together and experienced the nasty words thrown around trying to work this out; you've been through all the wishful thinking you could manifest; and you've worried that your relationship may not be strong enough to survive this, or you might not be strong enough to stick to your decisions.

Stepping up to the plate isn't always easy for the responsiblie partner.  Being a partner to someone who suddenly finds themselves stepping up to a very unexpected and not particularly pleasant responsibility isn't easy either.  Neither one of you saw this coming, to be honest, and you both had very different reactions to it.

Now what?

Someone's got to draw the line somewhere -- both of you, actually -- and you'll find that your boundaries are going to be very different. You have to acknowledge that there are "deal breakers" for relationships and marriages, and you may have just run into one. You might be finding yourself having to choose between this new responsibility and your relationship, literally. You might find yourself caught in a stagnant stalemate, at least for a while. And you most definitely will find yourself at a crossroads, and ultimately, you are the one who will have to make that final decision.

You can do it.  Do you know how I know this?... You already stepped up to the plate.

Spilling the Tea

From The Witch's Desk ~ Spilling the Tea

 

Affairs of the Heart

To the mistress...

She's watching in calculated silence, the two of you.  She's not done with him, no siree, though he might think she is.  The decisions that were made, the division of assets, the landing of the money, where it all went, who benefited, who was left out -- it's not over, it never is.

She's no longer working alone, by the way, she found a partner almost as hedonistic and calculating as she is.  But he prefers to stay in the background, working in the shadows, so to speak.  You should just know that if she wins, he wins, so he is pretty invested.

Maybe you should think twice about where this is going -- or where this all started, and was it really a good idea?  Maybe not, in hindsight, these sordid little tales rarely are.  It was rather shady, wouldn't you agree?... who made the first move, who told the first lie, who was the first to slip up, and wasn't it a war zone when the shit hit the fan.

No one can keep secrets forever.

To the wife...

The only way to lift the weight of this off your shoulders is to shine a light on those things that are best kept in the dark.  Not everyone will want to look, but it just takes one person with enough courage, the right person.  And, voila, the world will know and bells will toll.  You still won't be completely innocent, aka not at fault, but you might be able to successfully kid yourself... for a while.  It takes two you know, both for success and for failure.

It wasn't all bad.  It really wasn't.  And if you can throw just enough salt on the bitch to tarnish her new-mistress image, he might see her for what she actually is.  She's all smiles and aquiesence and unlimited sex right now, but we know this is a facade.  Remember, you two have a history together.  You've been through things, you experienced stuff.  You have memories, however warped some of them might be.  Hang on to that, because right now, that's about all you've got.  Some might say this is wishful thinking, and others might look at it as unabashed optimism.

Just remember, however this turns out, whatever your idea of "winning" might be...

He's done this once, and he will do it again.

Spilling the Tea