Let us count the ways...
Dreams come in many forms, from ordinary reflections of daily life to extraordinary experiences like lucid dreaming and prophetic dreams. Common types include normal dreams, vivid dreams, nightmares, recurring dreams, and daydreams. More unique dream types are lucid dreams, false awakenings, and even dreams that seem to predict the future.
The more common dreams include:
Normal Dreams...
These are the most frequent, often reflecting daily experiences and thoughts without strong symbolism or emotional intensity.
Vivid Dreams...
These dreams are characterized by intense realistic imagery and strong emotions, sometimes pleasant, and sometimes disturbing.
Nightmares...
These are distressing or frightening dreams that can cause feelings of anxiety or terror and may wake the dreamer.
Recurring Dreams...
These are dreams that repeat themselves, often featuring the same themes, settings, or characters, and may reflect unresolved issues or anxieties.
Daydreams...
These are conscious imaginative experiences that occur while awake, often involving fantasies or escapes from reality.
The more unique and less common dreams include:
Lucid Dreams...In these dreams, the dreamer becomes aware that they are dreaming and may even be able to influence the dream's events.
False Awakenings...These occur when a person dreams they have woken up, only to realize later that they were still dreaming.
Prophetic/Precognitive Dreams...These dreams are thought to involve glimpses of future events.
Night Terrors...These are different from nightmares and occur during non-REM sleep, often involving screaming, flailing, and a lack of memory of the event upon waking.
Healing Dreams...Some believe that dreams can play a role in physical and emotional healing.
Creative/Problem-Solving Dreams...These dreams can offer insights, ideas, or solutions to waking life problems.
Epic Dreams...These are dreams that are particularly vivid, memorable, and emotionally intense. If you have had an epic dream, you will never forget it.
What is the rarest kind of dream?
That would be a "shared dream".
Shared dreaming is the rarest type of dream, where two or more people enter the same dreamscape, according to some dream researchers.
I believe that I came close to shared dreaming with one of my daughters. Although we were not in the dream together, both of the dreams we had on the same night were linked in a rather horrifying way:
The other night, on my way to see a movie with my daughters, I told them about my dream the night before. One of my daughters was intensely excited when I told her that I had a disturbing dream the night before, because she said she did too, and she wanted to compare them. As I began relating my dream to her, she said, “Oh, my!”, and virtually started bouncing in her seat.My dream ~
There was a shadowy beginning part that was dark and ominous, like black and white quickened clips from a horror movie, most of which slipped from my mind, except that it involvd “A Man”. This man had something to do with the second part of this dream, which in contrast is starkly seared into my mind. Some dreams are like that, I believe, because they are more than just an ordinary dream. And this was one of those dreams.
The second part -- there was a knock on my front door. I opened it and heard someone say, “The police want to talk to you.” (Your stomach kind of goes thud when you hear those words.) I went outside, where there was a squad car with two officers sitting in the front seat. I stood by the passenger side, and the officer opened the car door. He was holding a child’s baby doll in his hands. He was crying , and he was retching, and he was trying to get ready to tell me something.
I realized in one sickening moment that it had to be something unusually gruesome and extremely horrific because of his reaction. I don’t think I wanted to hear what he was going to say. I woke myself up, which sounds odd, but I believe that I deliberately pulled myself from this dream.
My daughter’s dream ~
My daughter told me that she also dreamed of “A Man” on the same night. She said it was a terrible frightening dark and horrific nightmare. The man kidnapped her, and she said she tried and tried to escape from him, but she couldn’t.
Note: This phenomenon, where multiple individuals share the same dream, is estimated to occur in only about 1 in 10,000 people.
What are dreams trying to tell you?
“Dreams are often about identity, because we're figuring out who we are and what we need, and the beliefs and perspectives we hold,” says
Wallace. “If you feel unfulfilled, undervalued or not the person you want to be in waking life, your dreams will often reflect that."
What types of dreams should you absolutely not ignore?
I've chosen the dreams that strike a chord with me, follow
this link for more dreams that may need your attention.
Dreaming of being lost or trapped usually signifies uncertainty in a particular life situation, leaving you unsure about the steps to take. These dreams, whether you find yourself lost in a vast building, in the woods, or in a maze, evoke overwhelming feelings of being unable to find a way out. They mirror the complexities and challenges you may be facing in your financial, emotional, physical, or mental aspects of life.
Dreams of falling from a tall building, or sinking into a large body of water like the ocean, evoke feelings of helplessness and being overwhelmed. Contrary to popular belief, these dreams are not predictions of death. Instead, they suggest discontentment or dissatisfaction with your current life situation. They may reflect fear of failure in certain endeavors, or risky choices you have made that are causing difficulties.
This dream is most common among individuals experiencing anxiety. It often involves being chased by someone, an animal, or something else. In reality, it represents running away from a specific situation, or an emotion you are not yet ready to confront, such as a breakup or grief.
Dreams of flying are often exhilarating. They signify your readiness to make courageous choices, seeking liberation from the pressures of daily life, whether in relationships, work, or other aspects.
Dreams of being naked in public symbolize a fear of judgment. Putting yourself out there can be daunting, requiring courage. Everyone has a fear of exposing vulnerabilities. Overcoming these negative feelings requires embracing self-acceptance. The dream encourages you to appreciate and love yourself, accepting the reflection you see in the mirror each morning.
What does it mean to dream about a deceased loved one?
This is often referred to as a "visitation dream", and people will often find these dreams comforting, or they will come away with needed information, often inspiration, or a resolution to a problem.
The following dreams are dreams that my former husband and I had on the same night after his father had passed away. These dreams were an odd combination of shared dreams, visitation dreams, and lucid dreaming:
My father-in-law passed away in a mid-June. He was a very controlling manipulative man. When he died, my husband and I were estranged from him. In my lifetime, I have experienced contact with people who have passed over. I knew that the spirit of this man would come. I just didn’t know how long it would take him to get a decent bearing in his new plane of existence. I was expecting him.
I and my husband’s family were in some kind of house. I don’t know if it was a country club (that’s kind of what it felt like), a funeral home, or what. There were large, spacious rooms, people milling about, mostly family. A kitchen area was along side these rooms, a galley kitchen. You could walk in one end and walk out the other.
My husband and I were in the kitchen together for a few minutes. I think we were slightly peeved with each other for some reason. On leaving the kitchen, my husband went into one of the spacious living rooms to watch TV, and I turned to the right and went into another.
Not too much later, I was hungry and thirsty, so I got up and walked through the kitchen, coming out at the other end, where there was a small table of food and drinks sat up. This table was in a smaller nook at the end of the kitchen, where a dining table sat, and several men were seated around it playing cards. My father-in-law was one of these men.
When he saw me at the small table of food, he gathered the cards up and rose from his chair, coming over to me, extending his hand. I thought he wanted to shake hands, so I extended my hand and he took it in his.
In a flash of a split second, I knew I had made a mistake. He didn’t want to shake my hand. He began squeezing it, gradually, fiercely, the look in his eyes evilly gleeful. He was enjoying what he was doing with unabashed devilish delight.
The strangest thing about this dream is that I knew within that split second that I was dreaming, and I knew, within that dream, that I was going to have to snatch my hand away before he could really hurt me.
I looked into his eyes, and I said, “You bastard!” Letting him know that I knew what he was up to, and I snatched my hand away at the last second, just before his grip would’ve tightened, and I wouldn’t have been able to get loose.
My former husband's dream ~
The irony of this dream doesn’t end here. When I told my husband about this dream, and the fact that I was expecting his father’s spirit to manifest here in some way, he told me that he had dreamed of his father on the same night.
In my husband’s dream, his father is sitting on a bench talking quietly and calmly to him. My husband told me that my father-in-law left a message for me... he said to tell me that he apologized.
Sources & Recommended Reading:
A Beginner's Guide to Lucid Dreaming
by Damian Blair
Conscious Dreaming
by Robert Moss
Why We Sleep
by Matthew Walker Phd
Dream Dictionary
by Tony Crisp