A Saga

 

• First impression

Someone has given you a long laundry list of rules, do's and don'ts, too many to take in.  The cards tell me that this is a very demanding individual, one that feels entitled and is use to getting their way.  I don't see you acting on all these demands; but I do see someone standing near your shoulder, whispering wise counsel in your ear... this is either a family member, friend, confidant, or a loved one who has passed and still wants to look out for you.  

• The story

The cards tell me that there once was a situation that felt fairly happy and normal, but things have changed.  There now appears to be a setting where everyone is doing their own thing and no one seems to be thinking about how this will affect the family unit as a whole.  While half of the clan run amuck, there are two individuals so caught up with their own drama they are completely oblivious to the chaos around them... except for one person, so it seems, and this individual has had enough.  They will be making an exit, stage right.

The cards tell me that this individual has become disillusioned, frustrated, and simply does not know what else to do to cope.  So their solution is to simply leave. (I have to wonder, amidst all the hubbub and noise and confusion, will anyone notice their absence?)

The bottom line for this scenario is that you can't get rid of burdens so easily... anxiety, worry, indecision, melancholy will all be there, this individual will just be wallowing in them in their own solitary little world.

• The advice

To the noisy self-absorbed people in this story -- shut up and listen.  To the couple who are so wrapped up in themselves they aren't paying attention to anyone around them -- maybe you need some time apart, this sounds more like myopic obsession than love.  To the individual who leaves the sinking ship... if you are not able to move forward while leaving this chaos cleanly behind you, go back and make some noise, find  your voice, stop suffering in silence, knock a few heads together (figuratively) because it appears you've never done this before.  It's long overdue.

Truth and Transparency ~ a marriage made in heaven

 

There's one thing standing between you and happiness, just one thing... the truth.

Beware well thought out words and eloquent soliloquies of love and admiration, or explanation.  There lurks beneath this beautiful and glossy surface the dark and murky reality of deception.

Sometimes we believe what we choose to believe, because we think it makes life easier.  It doesn't, it makes life an illusion.

I wish I had more to say, but today's message is just that simple.

Three Family Members: decisions, choices, change

 

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Looks Like You Get a Second Chance ~ but are you sure you want it?

 

This reading was just filled with the uncertain energies of choices to be made, decisions to reach, and impending conversations that need to be had. Whatever the scenario in your life that fits this reading, I empathize with you, as it appears the universe may be giving you a second chance, a do-over. But here's the thing -- this is a moment of dejavu -- you've had this second chance before, and it didn't work, and in a big way. So, do you really want to give it another go? Sometimes it might be best to let sleeping dogs lay, just saying.

Eyes Wide Shut ~ A Secret Revealed Brings a Tower Moment

 

The Deck: Light Seer's Tarot
(The High Priestess; The Tower; The Emperor -- etc.)

Someone doesn't see it coming; or someone is deliberately trying to ignore it; or someone is in denial; or someone is not listening to that little voice in their head... Warning lights should be going off.

I started this as a written reading and decided that there was just too much here to say, so it's a video now.  Also, for the past several days two cards have been coming up together reading, after reading... 6/cups and The Moon -- with The Tower. Someone from your past is coming in with a devastating secret that will altar lives; someone from your past is coming in at a time that will prove disruptive to your life as you know it now.  Someone is coming in and going to reveal something to you that will blow you away.

So, how are you going to handle it?

Out With the Old, In With the New ~ the Queen/pentacles, don't underestimate her

 

As it so often happens, this reading mirrors the written reading I did this morning for our Daily Cards. It's kind of eerie when that happens, but it just tells us that there is a definite energy and vibe that needs expressing. Here's a link to that reading, those daily cards, at my blog: https://everycathasatale.blogspot.com... 

Just a heads up... the Queen/pentacles at first appears oblivious and complacent about what's going on around her. She is not. She had me fooled too, until I pulled that last batch of cards. Don't underestimate her. If you're lucky, she just doesn't care. And if you're not so lucky... well.

Caught In the Middle With You

The Deck: The Seer's Tarot
(King/wands; 8/pentacles; Queen/swords -- reversed; The Moon; 6/cups)

I'm seeing two scenarios here:

• First, the words from an old song I vaguely recall is running through my mind -- "Caught in the middle with you..."

As this King and Queen are working on their connection, their relationship, and their life, an unseen third party is quietly going on with their existence between them, in the middle.  She seems oblivious, untroubled even, intent on her work, her daily tasks.

• Second, there is a lot of quiet, in the background work going on between this King and Queen.  There is the feeling of opposition between them right now, maybe a lot, maybe only enough to irritate the connection.  But they're working on it.  

This could refer to fixing an existing relationship, reconnecting an old relationship, or being involved in an extracurricular relationship... that sounds odd, but that best describes it.

The Moon is so beautiful and so exquisitely problematic.  It so often exposes lies, and deception, and secrets hidden in the shadows, those dark corners of our mind and our life.  The problem with secrets, other than they represent something that must be pretty undesirable if someone doesn't want them known, is that there is always the possibility of exposure, sooner or later.

With today's cards, the 6 of cups shows us that there is a strong link here to someone's past, whether memories, people, relationships, or regrets.  Maybe a sad combination of all.

My prediction... when the secrets are exposed, the couple will be successful in healing their connection.  But for the individual caught in the middle... how does the rest of that song go?

Boogey On Down Your Path

 
Housewives Tarot Deck was requested for this reading.

• (4/swords; 3/swords; 5/cups; The Fool)

It looks like there's been one too many "forks in the cake", and what a pretty scrumptious cake it looks, but there are times when sharing is frowned upon.  This is one of them. The three of swords unabashedly proclaims three-way relationships that usually result in expected ramifications.  In this case, you've had your time to mourn a loss, lick the wounds of betrayal, and put a pox upon a liar.  But now it's time to let all that go.

Take a deep breath... 

Now it's time to focus on yourself, your inward spiritual self, your centered mental self, and the glorious physical self that encompasses it all.  Grab your knapsack and head to the spa, the hairstylist, your favorite clothing store.  Buy new makeup, buy new shoes, and get to marching down that new path with purpose, your path, a direction that you've chosen for yourself.  Embrace determination and intent with a healthy dose of ego.  Yes, to paraphrase a makeup commercial, "You're worth it."

All of this positive action, intention, and thought will manifest something new and fascinating.  It will put before you an opportunity, or an individual, that will be quite a surprise.  Own it.

Surrender ~ what's holding you back

 

The oracle deck, "Whispers of Lord GANESHA", was requested for today's reading.

• (The Cards: Surrender; Joy; Divine Support; Inner Knowing; Insight; Fulfillment)

When you finally learn how to surrender -- expectations, apprehension, anxiety, negative thoughts, or any of the many personal demons that may be holding you back, you will find room for accomplishment, success, love, creativity, and... joy.

You already know, yes, you really do, what it is you need to surrender.  That little voice in your head has most likely been whispering this knowledge to you for years.  You also instinctively know what it is you need to do to succeed and find fulfillment.  But knowing what we need to let go of, and knowing what we need to do to achieve a goal is very different from actually letting go and doing.  Sometimes we have to work ourselves up to this point.

As you make this journey of surrender and achievement, one of many journeys you will make in your life, know that you have support and encouragement not only from family, friends, or a loving partner, but from the universe and Spirit as well.  As solitary as we may feel and life may seem, we're never really walking this path alone.

The Wall May Be Coming Down

 

The tarot deck, Green Witch Tarot, has been requested for our reading today. 

• (7/wands; King/chalices; Queen/wands -- reversed)

This king and queen are wary of each other, probably in opposition at one time, as though there's been a lot of water under the bridge. The barriers and boundaries that were put up in the past, for protection and self-preservation, may be slowly dismantled now.

• Extra cards: (All reversed: Ace/pentacles; 4/chalices; 3/athames; 2/pentacles)  

One of you will step forward with an offer, an apology, or a unique opportunity, which will be a surprise.  But the question is, will this contact out-of-the-blue be accepted?  There may be some trepidation and hesitation at the sudden appearance and peace offering, probably with good cause.  There was heartache, betrayal, and estrangement here and once, long ago, choices were made.

Secrets Can Be Burdens

 

What's our Tarot Forecast have to say for today?
(6/cups -- your past; The Moon -- secrets and deception; The Hermit -- inner contemplation) ~ 

Nostalgic memories may be playing on your mind, invading mundane daily thoughts, creeping up on you when you least expect it. For someone, there's a secret you've been keeping all these years that will finally be exposed; and for others, there is a secret that will be revealed to you. Either way, you'll need some solitary time to process the ramifications and fall out from it.

Two more cards for this... (8/swords -- reversed; Death) ~ 

Both scenarios will bring a sense of release and relief, a new-found feeling of freedom. And both scenarios will wipe the slate clean, giving everyone a chance for a fresh start.

Ten Questions and the Answers You May Need

 

What do I need to know about this situation?

(3/pentacles; 8/pentacles -- reversed; The Devil)

Something isn't working, that's just the thing, and you are trying incredibly hard to MAKE it work.  Kind of like Cinderella's ugly step-sister trying futilely to shove her big ugly foot into the little glass slipper.  It's not a fit -- whatever this situation is for you, and the glass slipper is NEVER going to fit.  If you keep trying to slam a round peg into a square hole, all you'll wind up with is problems and issues that will compile with time.

What’s the best path I can take at this time?

(Ace/swords -- reversed; Justice; 7/wands)

The best path:  Silence.

You don't need to plea your case to attain justice.  There's someone who is trying to do just that, and this effort will fail them miserably.  I'm feeling that this is a court case for someone.  Stand your ground, guard your space, your integrity, and yourself.  Maintain boundaries.

How can I improve my relationship with ___________?

(Prince/cups -- reversed; Temperance; 5/swords; 4/wands) 

For the relationship on your mind:  Maintain your unique connection and energy with this person.  Don't allow differences to chip away at your relationship, because doing so will only weaken your bond.  Don't -- be defensive, pick petty squabbles, or be mean trying to prove a point... your point isn't that important. By treating your connection with this person as something valuable -- and fragile -- you'll find yourselves moving on to the next level.

What can I do to make __________happen?

(5/wands -- reversed; 9/wands -- reversed; Justice; Ace/swords -- reversed) 

To make this happen:  Stop overthinking a situation.  Stop the internal arguments and negative brain chatter.  Banish the stagnation and begin moving forward again... with a project, with a relationship, with a dream, with a goal.  Set boundaries where boundaries are needed, but don't paint yourself into a solitary corner... sometimes we need help, sometimes we need advice, sometimes we just need someone to cheer us on.

What am I not seeing at this time?

(2/cups -- reversed; 3/wands -- reversed; Ace/wands; The Sun -- reversed; The Hanged Man -- reversed)

You are not seeing...

A relationship that is going through significant changes, either you're not aware, or you are avoiding the process.

The choices that are before you, either you don't realize they exist, or you don't want to make a choice... that would mean taking responsibility for the outcome.

You're turning a blind eye to a unique opportunity the universe is laying at your feet, either you're not interested, or you are afraid of failure.  Not accepting this opportunity lets you off the hook.

You're not seeing that the lack of happiness in your life could be from stagnation, inertia, and lack of motivation.  Start moving forward and seek the Sun... make plans, do things; make plans for something that you've secretly longed to do, do stuff that everyone may have told you that you couldn't do.  Prove them wrong.

In what way am I holding myself back?



(Queen/swords -- reversed; Princess/pentacles -- reversed; Judgement; 7/wands -- reversed; 8/swords; The Hierophant)


You are holding yourself back by...

Isolating yourself, then feeling trapped in your own solitude.

Embracing conformity because you were told this was right, and at one time, this may have been expected from you.

You are holding yourself  back by holding  your tongue, either because you don't think saying what's on your mind would be appropriate or nice, or it could cause friction.  There are times when you don't have to be nice or appropriate, and friction makes heat and heat makes fire and fire burns off the weeds.

You're holding yourself back with  your naiveté.  Don't be afraid to look at and acknowledge gritty, dirty, uncomfortable things that need to be acknowledged in order to be avoided.

Don't miss second chances.

Don't be super critical of yourself, cut yourself some slack.  Someone needs to.

What can I expect if I choose _____________?

(Princess/swords -- reversed; The Hermit; 6/pentacles -- reversed; King/pentacles; 3/swords; 4/pentacles; 5/pentacles)

If  you choose to contact someone, expect some uncomfortable and difficult conversation.

If you choose the wrong relationship for the wrong reasons, expect some heartache.

If you're hanging onto your money and embracing your finances with miserly hugs, expect an unexpected expense or a request for financial aide from someone.

If you choose a solitary path, expect some unexpected enlightenment.  It will be your spiritual "aha" moment.

If you expect some equal give and take... in a relationship, in a financial situation, in a family dynamic... expect to be awash in the golden glow of stability.

How can I understand _________?



A relationship breakup, separation, or divorce...

(2/wands; Princess/wands -- reversed; 6/swords; Queen/cups)

It's not always someone's "fault", sometimes relationships just come to a natural conclusion.  Not all connections that we make are meant to last a life time, sometimes people cross our path briefly when there's something we need to learn from them, or something they need to learn from us.

Sometimes the passion just dissipates, it just does.

Sometimes you may get tired of waiting for another person to make up their mind about their feelings for you and your future together... but here's the thing -- you don't have to wait helplessly for an endless period of time to see if someone is going to make a decision to love you and have a life with you.  You have the power to make a decision to move on if you're tired of waiting.("Here, let me decide for you", you can say.)

Where should I direct my energy at this time?

(4a/wands -- reversed; Princess/wands; The High Priestess; 2/cups -- reversed; 3/wands; Ace/wands)

At this time, your energy should be...

Focused on your personal happiness and pursuing those things that you are passionate about.

Your energy should be set loose from a difficult situation to follow new adventures and meet new people.

Your energy should be focused inward toward your intuitive spiritual self.  There are enlightening "aha" experiences awaiting you on this plane.

Make a decision or choice... with passion.

Why does this pattern keep showing up in my life — and what can I do to change it?

(The Sun; 8/cups -- reversed; Strength; 8/pentacles -- reversed; **Queen/wands (R)/King/wands**; 10/pentacles)

This pattern is showing up because...

You left something behind which brought you great happiness, and you are under the assumption that you're not strong enough to go back and recapture it.  This is your pattern, and it has left a trail in its wake.

To change it, you need to change your thought patterns...

Expect something worthwhile to require a certain amount of work.  You may also be searching for this perfect ideal of what you think happiness is.  Let's garner a more realistic view.  Take control of your life back if you have, over time, unwittingly relinquished it to a spouse, partner, parent, or other individual.  

The Spirits Speak ~ stop fighting it

 

• The Spirits Speak... (9/cups; 7/wands; 2/swords) 

You are very tired of fighting something... what? -- other people's expectations? pressure to conform? personal demons? Give it a rest, put it down. Be still and focus. There's a decision right before you that you may not have realized is even an option... Choose, make a decision. Once you do, life and all it's jigsaw pieces will fall into place. 

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